Latest Episodes
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Masc for Masc: Preference or Internalized Homophobia?
When a gay man says he’s attracted to masculine men, is that simply preference… or could internalized homophobia be part of the story? In...
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Flakey Gays: Why is Follow-Through So Hard?
The guy who constantly cancels plans, keeps things vague, or disappears when something better comes along — that’s flakiness: a pattern of not following...
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Is Being Gay Your Entire Identity? (The Hidden Cost of Over-Identification)
What does it actually mean to identify as gay? For many of us, claiming the word “gay” was liberating. It gave us language, belonging,...
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Is Romance Dead in Gay Culture?
In a world of swipes, situationships, and high-intensity connections, romance can start to feel obsolete — replaced by sexual energy, emotional guardedness, or the...
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Sexual Authenticity: Owning Your Desires
Being sexually open isn’t the same as being sexually honest. In a culture that celebrates sex, many gay men still struggle to feel aligned...
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The Body Count Dilemma: Why Gay Men Can’t Win
In gay culture, “body count” refers to how many people you’ve slept with. And whether it’s high or low, it often feels like a...