Latest Episodes
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When To Get Off the Apps (And When to Go Back On)
Apps are a huge part of modern gay life. We delete them, reinstall them, swear them off, go back on, and keep trying to...
296
Why Bad Boys Feel So Good
Why do the guys who are a little distant, a little edgy, and a little hard to get feel so magnetic? Is it actually...
295
Why Gay Men Struggle with Intimacy
Intimacy sounds like something we all want, but being truly seen can feel terrifying. In this episode, we talk about why fantasy often feels...
294
From Validation-Seeking to Self-Trust
Seeking validation isn’t just about chasing likes. It’s the part of us that needs approval, wants to belong, and feel accepted. But does it...
293
When Feeling Bad Is Good For You
Feeling bad is not a flaw in the human experience. It’s an essential life skill for anyone who wants a life of love, growth,...
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Liked by Everyone, Chosen by No One: The Nice Guy Trap
A lot of gay men pride themselves on being “nice”— easygoing, agreeable, low-drama. But what if that’s exactly why you’re not getting what you...