Latest Episodes
239

How to Not Lose Yourself in Your Relationships
In this episode, Matt speaks with therapist and author, Tom Bruett, about how to avoid losing yourself in your relationships. By balancing connection and...
238

Why Gay Men Love Divas
From Madonna to Mariah, Beyoncé to Barbra— throughout the generations, gay men have been obsessed with divas. But why? In this episode of Gay...
237

The Women in Our Lives
The women in our lives have influenced us in ways we don’t always recognize, but when we take a step back, their impact is...
236

People Pleasing, Boundaries, and Fear of Conflict
Do you find yourself putting other people’s needs ahead of your own? Struggle to set boundaries? Feel responsible for keeping the peace even when...
235

The Power of No
Many gay men struggle with saying no, setting boundaries, or engaging in difficult conversations due to deep-seated people-pleasing tendencies and fear of conflict. But...
234

Eroticizing Shame - Turning Pain Into Pleasure
In this episode, Matt speaks with Psychotherapist, Merle Yost, about how shame may influence sexual desire and arousal by eroticizing shame as a way...