The Illusion of Control

Episode 21 March 11, 2021 00:53:40
The Illusion of Control
Gay Men Going Deeper
The Illusion of Control

Mar 11 2021 | 00:53:40

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Hosted By

Matt Landsiedel Michael DiIorio

Show Notes

About Today’s Show

Are you a control freak? Recovering Perfectionist? Or maybe you feel like you’ve never had any control.

Today we dive into the topic of control and how we navigate this illusion that we can control the things and people around us.

We share insights on how we learned to let go of the need to control everything around us and how we each embrace the energy of allowing and having faith in the process.

Calan also shares a very personal story in today’s episode about where his need to control came from and what he’s been doing to move through it and have more faith that everything is unfolding the way it’s supposed to. Be warned, you may shed a tear or two!

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